#4 He doesn’t reply to your texts. He doesn’t reply to any texts that don’t start with, “What are you doing later?” It’s not because his phone is dead or that he’s busy at work. He doesn’t care and he’s just using you. He doesn’t want to spend any time having small talk about the TV show you watched last night, or the annoying co-worker you have that won’t stopping inviting you out.
He wants to know when you two can have sex. And if he’s not willing to text you back for a simple text message, then he can find someone else to have sex with.
#5 Avoids the “where is this going” conversation. I know, I hate having that conversation as well and if you have to have that conversation after having sex multiple times, then the answer is pretty clear. Remember this: if a guy wants something, he’ll go and get it. If he wants to date you, he will make that happen.
So, if you’re asking him the “where is this going” question, and he’s avoiding it like a professional dodgeball player, then you know he’s not interested in anything more than what you two already have. If he starts with the, “I’m not sure exactly what I want,” that’s a lie. He’s just using you and trying to stay in your pants while he keeps you on your toes.