#8 Make new goals and work toward them. This is really about keeping your mind busy. What better way to occupy your mind than to work toward something you care about? Set some new goals and get started on them. They can be anything from fitness and health-related to a project around the house.
#9 Talk to your buddies about it. Let your friends talk you out of being obsessed with her. It might be a touchy topic, but just tell them you can’t stop thinking about her and need a little help.
They can often help keep you distracted or even give you advice if they’ve been through something similar before. So confide in them and see if they can offer some solutions.